Pieces of my life as they come to me. What has made me who I am, the significant and maybe some not so significant events leading up to my 33rd birthday. Remembering the past for the sake of the future.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

O to be an Island...

We all know the basic definition of an Island.

A land mass completely surrounded by water.

What else is an island. An island can contain many things. Though at the basic level it is land. Land that is at the surface, separated from all other land by the water that surrounds it. However, that is only the portion we can see above the surface of the water and all we typically think about. At the base however all islands around our planet are connected to all other land. Yes there are faults and the tectonic plates and all that but I'm not here to get into that. What has been on my mind is the connection point. The fact that all land is fed by the same source whether it appears to be an "island" or an extremely large continent. Which if you want to get technical could probably also be considered an island, at least in my thinking :-)

Uh what's the point Wieb? My point is there are those who would try to separate themselves from others. Whether Christian or not. Some from the church try to go it alone. Some call themselves Atheist so they don't have to answer to God. However, at the base. We are all created in the image of God designed to be in an intimate relationship with Him. When we are not, we are not whole, we are not what we are intended to be. As if an island tried to float away from what holds it above the surface of the water. We all know without question it would quickly sink and be removed from sight.

Here's an interesting thought. No matter what you do with a piece of land. Drop it, throw it straight up, or into the water, it always go right back to another piece of earth. We are created not only to be in relationship with our creator but those like us. Other followers of the one who gives us all breath. As "Iron sharpens Iron". We must remain in contact one way or another with others who are seeking that relationship with Him. That we may be what we have been created to be.

Seek out those who are like minded. Walk and talk with them, learn from one to teach another. All of us are connected to the same source and if we stand together, grow together and spread that truth and knowledge together the whole world will see and know the source that feeds us.
Tap into that source available to each and every one of us if you are not already doing so. Jesus Christ is the only way to true life.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

living in the frozen North

Recently a good friend of mine has been asking me daily, what 3 things am I thankful for today. It has made me think about a lot of things and I have time to write a bit tonight and wanted to share.
The hardest thing for me up here however is not the cold. It is being so far from those I care about. To my nieces and nephews if you see this, I miss ya'all and love you. Wish I could give you all a big hug tonight!!! To my siblings, you are the best.

Ashley, it has been way too long! It's sad that now we are in the same state and it's even harder for us to see each other, I miss you. I pray for you often and hope you are doing well.
Amy, I am proud of you and hope you and Chris are doing well and that you enjoy your next adventure wherever it may take you.
Bri, you are the coolest big brother a guy could ask for. I am so proud of you. For who you are and the example you are to me and those around you. If I can be half the man you are I will be doing well. You and Jen are both awesome, no better way to say it :-)
Tami, I miss you and you family a ton. I am proud of you and Mark for continuing to seek God thru hard times. For being an amazing example of what a family should be. Thru thick and thin, good and bad. I know I don't see it all by any means, but I see enough to know I am thankful for each of you and what God has done in your lives.
Mom 2 Kris :-) You have been so great thru everything. Thank you for being there. It confuses my friends but you will always be mom to me. I love you.
Dad, I am thankful that you continue to learn. Thru the trials of life and from your own mistakes as well. I am thankful that you seek the Lord and what He has for you and pray He will bless you with the desires of your heart.
Mom, To my best friend and personal prayer warrior, not sure what else to say but thank you. Nothing I can say will ever cover it so I'll just say that again, thank you and I love you. You are the best! I am proud of you for continuing to seek the Lord. For looking for the best in every situation even when you feel like you are surrounded by the enemy and encouraging me to do the same.

To C.S. you have been an inspiration and a breath of fresh air. Thank you for your friendship and encouragement. Everyone should be so lucky as to have a friend like you.

Dave, not that you'll see this but maybe someone will pass the word. Thank you will never cover what you have meant to me. Your simple willingness to be a friend and example and to be that in spite of the pain I know I was, well God used you to change my life and without you being willing, Lord only knows where I would be today. Thank you, oh and if you haven't already, GO SHOPPING!!!!!

Dhere are so many others I can't even begin to write about all those who have had an impact in my life.

I wrote this in the Life goes on but it has turned into a "pieces of me".... kind of thing. So I moved it here... haha

Thursday, December 9, 2010

the "Value" of a true friend

A friend, we are told, is one who sticks closer than a brother.

I have been blessed in my life with several truly good friends. Communication with some has come and gone but it always seems to pick right back up where it left off. One of them I truly owe my life to. His obedience and willingness to put up with me, whether out of calling or parental orders I'm not sure, changed the course of my life. He is a man of God and will always to me be an example of what God has called us to be. Another is a friend from bible school. We have had our ups and downs but have somehow maintained a friendship and I hope ability to encourage each other thru the years.

In spite of these two exceptional friends, I have, maybe more often than not, lost sight of what a true friend really is. This has nearly put me into some really bad situations because of choices I "wanted" to make. In the words of Garth Brooks, "I thank God for unanswered prayers" and "some of Gods greatest gifts are unanswered prayers". Recently I have been reminded of what a true friend really is. Not only have both of my longstanding friends been there thru some tuff months but I have also been blessed with a new friend.

I am thankful for the encouragement that I receive from all 3. Even when I am a pain in the butt. Yes, it's true, I can be a pain on occasion. OK, seriously, you can stop laughing now, no really, what's so funny? Hey, if I got you to laugh it was worth it all right :-) Moving on now..... I have truly been encouraged, especially by the newest friend the Lord has blessed me with. This person I'll call CS has been a constant friend during this last move. Has lead me toward the Lord when I have questioned why I'm here. CS has let me vent when I need to vent and I know CS has been praying for me as well. CS has lifted my spirits after difficult days learning a new job and relearning an old job.

The value of a true friend, priceless. If you ever find a friend like that, go out of your way to be that friend as well for them. I made the mistake once of pushing a friend like this away, I hope I never do that again. Thankfully that person stuck be me and is still one of the 2 I mentioned earlier. There may be times you have to let a friend go for a while. Maybe God had them in your life for a time for a reason, and maybe like me you will be blessed enough to have that friendship remain thru the worst of circumstances.
Thank you KW, DK and CS, You all have a place in my heart and life that has made me who I am and is making me who I will become. Thank you for all for allowing the Lord to lead in your lives and for being the friend He has asked you to be to me.



Truth be told, there is a 4th that I have not mentioned yet. She has been there thru thick and thin. She has seen my worst and has loved me always. She has been my constant cheerleader and prayer warrior from before I was born. I have the best friend anyone could ask for in my mom. love ya ma, thanks for everything